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Suffering From Business Anxiety? Here Are 6 Solutions You Should Live By Every Day

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Suffering from business anxietyHave you ever had a day in a business where one minute you’re elevated, on top of the world and next minute you’re back on the ground?

Yeah, me too!

Owning a business brings so many ups and downs. All in one day. Sometimes within a few minutes.

As an entrepreneur, you’re at war with evil uncertainty every day. Will we bring in enough money to pay the staff this month? Will that investment pay off? You’re hoping you don’t lose clients.

And then, business anxiety kicks in.

Anxiety is a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease about something with an uncertain outcome. Worrying about something that actually hasn’t happened yet.”

Guess what?

Is it not the end of the month. Your client is still yours. If the investment doesn’t pull off, so what, you’ll know better next time.

If you worry about the end of the month, you can’t possibly do your best work for your customers. Focus on doing great work now for your client and you will never lose them. If you did your homework, your investment should pay off. If it doesn’t, then it’s called failure. Something you will do over and over again unless you build in systems and rules to your business life (more on this later). If you can’t cope with failure, work on an Asda (Walmart in the U.S.) checkout. You will get that right 999 times out of a thousand.

Sorry for being a little hasty, but it’s the entrepreneur life we are committed to. But, I’m here to help and give you some tips on how I lead my business and personal life to avoid business anxiety.

1. Learn to say NO

LEARN TO SAY NO WITHOU EXPLAINING YOURSELF. (1)Are you a people pleaser? I am!

It’s a great way to be, but it comes with it’s downfalls. You take on a customer that doesn’t work out to be a perfect match for you and for them. It happens. You work hard on the relationship, you do your best work and still the relationship doesn’t work out.

Or you take on more work from a customer you love, even though you know you don’t really have the time to do it right now. You squeeze it in and it isn’t your best work.

Learn to say NO or get help. Your customer will respect you more. You will keep everyone happy, including yourself and you continue doing great work.

Related Reading: 7 Simple Ways To Say “No” by Zen Habits

2. Do your best work, don’t aim for perfection

perfectionism is often an excuse for procrasination

Is perfectionism holding you back?

There’s always room for improvements, especially in business. You could spend ten gruelling hours on writing the best piece of content for your blog, publish it, promote it and then when you analyse everything, you will find ways you could have done better or ways to improve.

Do your best work at that time and if you find ways to improve, great, use these to improve next time. Don’t let perfectionism get in the way and stop you from actually doing anything.

Be brave and put out your best work. If it’s not great this time, next time it will be better. It’s the only way to grow.

This blog article isn’t perfect but I know I will help at least one person and that stops me from worrying ‘what if’. I also know, it’s my best work at this very moment and writing this is actually driving these points even deeper into my mind. That must count for something, right?

3. Create rules

Flee from hate, mischief and jealousy. Don't burry thoughts, put your vision to reality. Wake up and live.You should do this! You should do that! And both statements contradict each other and you don’t know what choice to make. Have you ever felt that?

I have many times.

Rules can be practical. They take away procrastination. Once you have written down your rules of life and business, you don’t need to spend time thinking what should I do here.

A simple example could be: I’m not going to use Facebook for my business because I want to concentrate all my time using LinkedIn to generate enquiries. I prefer the platform and all my peers are on there. My customers are on there, too.

Once you have this rule imprinted in your head, no more worry from people telling you, you’re losing money by not using Facebook, it has the whole world on there, it’s ad platform is great and you’re missing potential clicks.

All this may be true, but none of this matters to you because your rule is your rule. It’s your decision. You have a plan and you stick to it.

Related Reading: 32 Little Rules I Follow To Live A Life That Feels Good Every Day by Ryan Holiday

4. Exercise

Look after your body. It's the only place you have to live in.Recently I started swimming. No headphones. No phone. No notepad. Exercising with no distractions and silence (except for chatty women, but I just swim away).

This alone time with the noise of my own thoughts has helped me in so many ways. I’m making better plans for my business and in life. If I have an idea whilst swimming my brain is working to figure out where this idea is going instead of getting straight on technology to get confirmation from an article which is written by someone else.

These moments swimming have not only expanded my thought process, they have motivated me during the day. I normally go swimming just before lunch, after busting out some tasks in the morning. Then, I get back to work and implement those new ideas.

Oh, and it’s good for your health apparently.

5. Mindfulness

Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be.My wife taught me about mindfulness. It’s something business owners don’t know how to be sometimes.

In business, we have goals. Reach 1,000 fans on Facebook. Make 100k this year. And so on. We’re always thinking about that end goal and sometimes not content with what’s happening right now, in this present moment.

I ask myself this question in the morning – What do I need to do today to make sure that it takes me one step closer to my goals?

That may be in health, relationships, business, wealth, spiritual and personal growth. I have goals in all of these areas. They work like legs of a table. If one is broken, it affects the rest.

Then at the end of the day I ask myself this – Did I take myself one step closer to my goals today?

If the answer is ‘YES’ then I know today was a success and I can celebrate that by feeling good about the day. If the answer is ‘NO’ you know what to do tomorrow.

6. So what?

It takes months to find a customer and seconds to lose one.It’s ok to lose a customer. There, I’ve said it. It’s not the end of the world.

Remember how you felt when you lost a client or customer. You have a somber feeling come over you for a while and then you get angry and say, how could they leave me? Then soon after, you pick yourself up and get back to work. I bet you’ve had clients and lost them and now you haven’t thought about them for a long time, right?

This is all wasted energy. You worry about the possibility of losing a client and when you do lose them, you forget about them after a while anyway. Time to stop worrying about what could happen. Work with your clients you have NOW and do your best work for them, NOW.

If they leave, they leave. The only thing you have to do is work with integrity. Today, and every day.

Do you or have you suffered from business anxiety? I have.

It would be great to hear your thoughts and if you have any tips you would like to share, please do so in the comments below. 

If you’ve got this far, well done. To you, and to me. I really do appreciate your time. 

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About Steven Sefton

I own my own digital life and it owes me a digital living. Love Social Media & Digital Marketing. Big fan of the great outdoors and if I'm not behind a desk, I'm usually outside on top of a big hill somewhere in Scotland. Usually find me on Facebook, Twitter & Google+.

  • Kevin Anderson

    Really enjoyed this Steven. A timely reminder to maintain a bit of perspective. Also an interesting thought. I was once off my work with a stress related illness – Work Stress and Entrepreneur Stress is different.

    Thanks for sharing. Really enjoy your writing style.

    Kevin

    • http://www.seftonmedia.com/ Steven Sefton

      Thank you, Kevin!

      Once you get past all the “what ifs” in business, you tend to do your best work.

      I’m glad you like my writing style. I try to write as I would speak.

      I see you were at TCMA and I couldn’t make it unfortunately. My good friend, Mike McGrail was speaking at the event.

      I’m sure our paths will cross soon enough.

      Steven

  • Craig Godfrey

    Good work – living in the present is the only way to generate a successful future. What you do today is important, because you are exchanging a day of your life for it.

    • http://www.seftonmedia.com/ Steven Sefton

      Well said, Craig!

      Thanks for commenting.

  • http://bluecliffmedia.com Gavin Bell

    Great article Steven. Similar to the one I wrote on the harsh realities of being a business owner so it’s good to see other people feel the same way!

    • http://www.seftonmedia.com/ Steven Sefton

      Just seeing this, Gavin!

      Thanks for commenting. I’ll search for your article.

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